It's rare that I start a blog entry by apologising for the radio silence - but it's also rare that I go nearly an entire month without blogging - so please accept my apologies for going a month without publishing anything.
It's certainly not for lack of things to write about, that's for sure. The past few months have been some of the most exciting of my life; self-employment is in full swing and Pepsmedia is doing great, we've had two fabulous holidays (first was a quirky narrowboating trip with friends, second was a relaxing two weeks in Canada to see my family), and life has generally been very good to us.
Amongst all these brilliant events, however, time to step back and admire how far I've come since getting to the UK in 2001, which now feels like a lifetime ago.
But today, I'm feeling contemplative. Perhaps it's because, as of yesterday, Pepsmedia now has a Cambridge office and I'm basking in the autumnal sunshine. Or perhaps it's because our first employee is starting next week and I can already feel a weight lift off my shoulders, safe in the knowledge that I'll soon have a secondary brain available to help me (what can I say, the cloning attempts have all failed...) Or it might simply be because I'm in a good mood.
When I chose to take online marketing and social media consultancy seriously, I didn't know how well I'd fare, but I took the plunge. "What's the worst that can happen?", I told myself, "Worst case scenario, I get a new regular job or take on a temporary contract." But after a good dose of hard work, long hours and a bit of luck, things are going brilliantly. An old colleague commented, saying I was so lucky to be where I was today, doing what I love and working with truly awesome clients.
While thinking about what proportion was luck, and what was blood, sweat and tears, I came across a post by Tara Hunt on people who seem to be lucky, and others who don't seem to benefit from this supposed luck. Paraphrasing Richard Wiseman, a psychologist at the University of Hertfordshire, she highlights four main characteristics of lucky people:
Four characteristics of lucky people
- Lucky people are skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities;
- Lucky people make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition;
- Lucky people create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations; and
- Lucky people adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.
To some extent, some days the planets probably do align better for you than for someone else. But generally speaking, luck isn't about crossing your fingers in the hope that something good will happen, but rather taking every opportunity to MAKE your own luck.
If you're passionate about something and you want to be "the lucky one who gets to do what they love for a living", sitting in a job you dislike, slogging away on demotivating work hours a day, the lucky break won't happen by itself.
Talk to people who understand where you want to be and may create serendipitous situations where you meet the right people to help you get where you want to be. Find pet projects in the evening, things that get you closer to learning the skills you'll need to get to your goal. If it's possible, even consider talking to your current boss to see if you can come to an arrangement; for example, my last employer let me move from full time to two days a week, providing me with a "safety net" while giving me the flexibility to get started.
Most of all, enjoy the journey. It's like a long hike; while the destination matters, you've got to keep your head high and enjoy the view along the way!
So while I'm blogging less regularly, be sure to say hi on Twitter in the meantime.
[Photo credit: John-Morgan on Flickr, Creative Commons]