IT WORKS!
That’s all I’ve got to say. I bought MissingSync from MarkSpace and it’s solved every synching problem I could ever have. I’m likely to use it to copy certain things over from the PC to the Mac, such as anything else stored within Outlook. iCal/Address Book/Mail just don’t seem to get along with bullying Outlook, so MissingSync will have to mediate the relationship!
Seriously, now I have no reason to go back to my PC, and am sooo happy with the Mac! It’s great! … I just need more time to play with it, please!